Roll on 2009

6 01 2009
So it’s 2009 now. Feels much like 2008. Especially when you consider the goals remain the same:
  • get the novel finished and sent out to publishers (it has been the goal for the last 3 years),
  • find happiness at home (becoming increasingly important as I grow older),
  • try to be a better person (believe it or not I can be a bastard).

Let’s see how that pans out, eh?

Anyway, what’s been up with me?

I had two weeks off work. I spent most of it playing Fallout 3. Kirsty and I did have grandiose plans but they kinda got scuttled when her mother was rushed to hospital on the 28th. Her mum’s a type 2 diabetic who never really looked after herself. As a result she has had both legs removed and is virtually blind. She’s been in and out of hospitals and respite for the past few years. Most of the time she’s at home being cared for by Doug. Doug’s a wonderful man but he’s been forced to retire and is her fulltime caregiver. It’s a tragic situation and extremely stressful on all involved.

On the 28th Doug couldn’t rouse Maureen. Fearing she had fallen into a coma he called an ambulance and she was rushed to hospital. When they got to the hospital they administered an anti narcotics drug that seemed to bring her around. As a result they thought she had an overdose. Initially they thought it was suicide then when they realised she had no access to the drugs the ER doctor reckoned Doug had tried to euthanize her. By this time Kirsty was there and she was so mad. Then they realised that they were wrong with their diagnosis – she had come around in the ambulance already but they didn’t apologise. Oh no. Apparently “sorry” is a word idiot ER doctors don’t know. I find that behaviour shocking. Doug just dealt with it as something life throws at you.

Eventually, after another four consults with more experienced doctors, they figured out she had a sodium deficiency. It took them another few days to get it right and she came home on New Year’s Eve.

Of course all this drama meant we never got around to the stuff we wanted to do as a couple like go to the zoo, or the museum, or even a frikkin movie. In a silver lining kind of thing, it did mean I was able to enjoy my brand new precious …

My precious...

My precious...

Isn’t she pretty? Fallout 3 looks awesome on it and we’ve been celebrating our new arrival by rewatching the extended editions of Lord of the Rings. So. Bloody. Good. Can’t wait for The Hobbit!


the wedding

18 08 2008

Well we survived the wedding. It was a hell of a day though. The ceremony was very traditional and conducted by a doddering old woman who hardly could change the pages of her notes. There’s footage of me and Nigel (the groom) exchanging wide eyed glances at one point. It was weird in a way. Neither Fiona or Nigel are Christian yet they had their wedding in a Presbyterian church.

After the ceremony we went and got photos at the top of One Tree Hill (no not the series the mountain). Which was cool and all EXCEPT for it being the middle of winter and the wind blowing a gale. Both Kirsty and Fiona almost froze to death but the photos are going to turn out amazing. Then we had to change limos as our old fashioned Daimler almost broke down. It backfired its way down the mountain past tourists. We had a few final photos at the museum before heading to the reception.

By this time I was feeling quite grotty as my flu had crept up again but I soldiered on and managed to deliver my speech. It got some laughs and seemed to go down well but as happened at my wedding, Doug, Fiona and Kirsty’s dad, stole the show with his brilliant dissection of Nigel which had everyone thumping the tables. I think Doug should have been a standup comedian.

I got my second wind during the dances and I ended up dancing for about 3 hours until K brought me home where I crashed for hours.

When I woke up I found NZ had kicked arse in the Olympics, the Warriors had won the league and the All Blacks had thumped the Boks. Awesome.

Addie’s back!

13 07 2008

Addie’s back and the world is right again! Now if we only can convince Jeff to come back (hint hint) the gang would be rolling again 😉